Hump History: Afterthoughts and Observations

by Teeebone

After the last party at the Center on September 9th, 2016, I took a well deserved break from the heavy activity for about six weeks. Then I started to miss the Hump. Wednesdays just weren’t the same after that. And then of course, I began to miss the other parties I used to work at, too. Power Play Mixed-Tape, OMG-SX!, The Poly Social, sometimes even Monday Madness– Typically I would find myself at the CSPC two or three times a week.

With all this experience, I sat down and thought about what made The Hump so successful:

  1. An EC/Champion/Host must learn how to delegate tasks because you can’t make the party happen by yourself. It was tough enough to do strike and clean up by myself, and I don’t recommend it. The CSPC has a lot of information and experience on “how to” put parties and events together and trusting others to do the tasks that you assign them can require an uncomfortable leap of faith if you don’t have experience in delegation.

  2. Online ticket sales FTW! Back in the day, cash was handled at the door and we had a registration program for handling admissions. To be honest, about half the time the EC on duty had to hang around the cashier’s desk to resolve issues that regularly came up using the old system. These days, ticket sales are done online in advance and this is a much smoother way to handle admissions. 

  3. Many hands make everything more fun. On the topic of ECs, The Hump got to experiment with a three ECs/Night schedule for a while, which helped divide the labor so that all three ECs had the option to work and play at the party. As our volunteer corps continues to grow, I hope we can get back to this best practice. #worklifebalance

  4. Consent matters. The growth of consent culture (and classes on consent) has helped our efforts in educating our new members on scene etiquette, boundaries, and consent in a much more immersive and effective way. Explicitly elevating consent as a core value within our community has caused remarkable positive change.

  5. Listen to attendees and try new things. In the first couple of years of its existence, The Hump did a lot of experimenting with music themes, different setup options, various snack spreads, monthly special events like “Whump at the Hump” and “Cuddle Huddle,” classes taught by members like Swing Dancing, Tango, and Belly Dancing and even the occasional “Hump Town Hall” during the social where we asked the attendees what they would like to experience at The Hump. While we had to scale things back after the fourth year, we were able to streamline things to help us produce a better Hump for the attendees.

  6. The volunteer team is Fam. Build that crew and keep it together. It can be the greatest challenge you may ever experience, but I found it rewarding, especially when watching The Hump grow as an event. Always remember that the CSPC is a community!

I think that covers the most salient points. I seem to remember telling many a new member when they first attended a Hump that they had taken the first step in what would be a very interesting journey… And it most certainly was! :^)

Want to be part of the volunteer team that starts the Next Great Party? Become a volunteer today!

2022 New Year's Eve--La Rêverie!

Ummet Ozcan - Bifrost (Extended Mix)

Discover an evening of dreamy hedonism brought to life as we ring in 2023 together!

Plan now for a hot New Year’s Eve among friends with the CSPC! We’ve planned affordable tickets so everyone can come. Let’s pack the Gallery and fill the air with screams of ecstasy and the sexy, sweaty smell of dreams come true!

It's your Midwinter Night's Dream ~ La Rêverie. If you've been holding off on that fantasy sex scene…that memorable BDSM deep dive with a special someone…email us to plan ahead! 

Saturday, December 31, 2022 is an auspicious date for sexy savoir-faire! Tickets are only $35 each and are on sale NOW! 

Dress to impress in whatever that looks like for you as we finale the final sex & BDSM party of 2022! Cream a little dream for New Year's Eve!

Your entry includes:

  1. Dance floor & music by our hypnotic DJs

  2. BDSM & sex play areas on both floors

  3. Scheduled scene(s) on the stage (email specialevents@thecspc.org to get involved!)

  4. Sexy Go-Go Dancers on mini-stages 

  5. Fun snacks

  6. Soda and juice 

  7. A midnight virgin toast

  8. Commemorative photo

  9. Tarot Readings by ObliqueBanter

  10. Each attendee receives a raffle ticket for the ‘End of the Year Raffle Drawing’ for a beautiful basket to be drawn just before midnight! (Must be present to win!)

VOLUNTEER! We need you to make this happen! If you’d like to volunteer for the party (and get in free,) contact TK or Teeebone at specialevents@thecspc.org or DM us on Discord.

Community Matters: Registration and Monitor Training

After a bit of a wait due to some packed schedules - we have an online/Zoom training scheduled for Monday, November 14th, for Monitoring (6-7pm) and Registration (7-8pm) to get you started on the path towards volunteering for these roles. 

To sign up, please log into Volgistics (or create your account if you haven't already - using the new volunteer steps here to get started: https://thecspc.org/volunteering) and sign up for each class you plan to attend - a shortened link to the Zoom meeting is included in the shift information. Signing up in Volgistics for the classes will help us update accounts more quickly after each class as well as letting the team know you plan on attending (in case of any technical difficulties or similar, we can send a note to let you know what's going on).

If you have opted in for 'Schedule Reminder' communications, you will also receive the link via email 2 days before the training.

A couple notes on training:

  • Monitor class attendees will have completed the first step on the path for monitoring. You'll work with monitorlead@thecspc.org to schedule shadow shifts for training with a monitor at events before you will be able to sign up for monitoring on your own.

  • Registration class attendees should be ready for shifts right away (please allow up to 1 week for Volgistics to be updated after class)

Not yet a volunteer? It’s not too late to be included in this training! Just follow the steps here to complete your on-demand online volunteer orientation and complete your online volunteer application. 

Hump History Year Nine: A Farewell to Charms

by Teeebone

By 2016, the CSPC had already been looking for a new home, as the terms of our lease were set to expire in the Fall of 2017, though the property owner ultimately negotiated a settlement for the CSPC to “leave early” a year sooner. Thus, Year Nine of the Hump was only seven months and a week long, but it was the year I felt I had worked the hardest yet.

A lot of staff turnaround took place, you see. At the end of January, the last core member from the founding Hump Team left. It was getting difficult to keep the party fully staffed. There was a general sense of exhaustion not just with my crew, but others as well. Even The Grind had gone from a weekly to a monthly schedule by then.

And yet, we were able to continue… The biggest challenge for this year was educating new members on scene etiquette, boundaries, and consent. I am very grateful that “consent culture” has become a thing nowadays because it helps educate those who are new in the community about what is acceptable behavior at our parties. The weekly tasks of event maintenance continued on a stable though busy “business as usual” routine throughout the year,so much so that it came as a surprise that the CSPC was going to leave its home sooner rather than later!

On September 7, 2016, I showed up at the Center at 4pm to run the very last Hump. I walked around the space, took in my memories and then an hour later got on with helping the crew set up the party one last time. We had a record breaking attendance, the tally being at ninety-nine, although I think there were a hundred plus due to a few walk-ins here and there.

It was an excellent finale, and when the last song was played on the DJ set, the attendees said their goodbyes and made their way home. I then joined the strike crew to clean stuff up and put things away. After the strike crew left, I was alone in the building where I did my last lockdown. At the DJ station, I took one last look at the Main Space in its dimly lit “after-hours” ambiance. So many memories, so much fun! I slung my backpack over my shoulder and then went to the front door, opened it, and stepped outside. I checked the lock and then went to my car. It was done.

I went back to attend the last Grind at the Center’s Interbay location the next day and then again for the Very Last Party the day after that. But that was it. On September 9, 2016, the last party was held at the CSPC’s original location. Then on September 15, the CSPC officially left the building that had been its home since 1999.

The Hump had perked along for more than eight years and had become a regular feature at the CSPC. It introduced many new members to the community as a “starter” party and served well in its function. To all of the volunteers who worked so hard as members of the Hump Team, I thank all of you so very much! We could not have done it without you!

Until next time... :^)

Want to be part of the volunteer team that starts the Next Great Party? Become a volunteer today!

2022 NYE: La Rêverie!

It's the end of 2022, and do we ever deserve to let loose before 2023 kicks in! 

Let’s celebrate with a Midwinter Night's Dream. La Rêverie, if you will. We know you've been holding off on that fantasy sex scene…that memorable BDSM deep dive with a special someone. What could be a more perfect setting than New Year’s Eve??

Saturday, December 31, 2022? Sounds like an auspicious date for some sexy savoir-faire! Tickets are only $35 each! 

Dream a little dream for New Year's Eve!

Dress to impress as we co-create the final sex & BDSM party of 2022! 

Your entry includes:

  1. Dance floor & music by our hypnotic DJs

  2. BDSM & sex play areas on both floors

  3. Scheduled scene(s) on the stage (email tk@thecspc.org to get involved!)

  4. Sexy dancers on mini-stages (email tk@thecspc.org or DM ObliqueBanter)

  5. Fun snacks

  6. Soda and juice 

  7. A midnight virgin toast

  8. Commemorative photo

  9. Tarot Readings by ObliqueBanter

  10. Each attendee receives a raffle ticket for the ‘End of the Year Raffle Drawing’ for a beautiful basket to be drawn right before midnight! (Must be present to win!)

Discover an evening of dreamy hedonism brought to life as we ring in 2023 together!

VOLUNTEER! We need you to make this happen! If you’d like to volunteer for the party (and get in free,) contact TK or Teeebone at specialevents@thecspc.org or DM us on Discord.

Hump History Year Eight: Eight's Not Enough

by Teeebone

The eighth ‘season’ of the Hump started out with a bang as we ushered in 2015. The New Year’s Eve party was always a big event, so we held “An Intimate Affair: A Sexy Dinner before the NYE Festivities.” This was a high protocol dinner before the party began, with such menu items as Sweet Kale Gourmet Salad, Mini Beef Wellington with Bacon, Cranberry Green Beans, Garlic Smashed Potatoes, and New York Cheesecake with Raspberry Sauce, just to name a few! Dinner was served in the Annex from 6 to 9pm, with the space being converted into a dessert bar and play space afterward.

At 7pm, the Hump (in the Main Space) opened for the two-hour social and then at 9pm, it was ‘Party On!’ with the doors opening for the Whump (in the RAW Dungeon) and access granted to the Annex. At midnight there was a toast featuring sparkling apple cider to ring in the new year. All of this required extra staff to make happen, and the volunteer corps stepped up to carry the celebration off beautifully. The NYE party always takes a lot of work, but I have noticed that the membership genuinely appreciates the event and the effort that we put into it.

By the second half of January, I realized that my work schedule had gotten so full that I made the decision to step away from running OMG SX! (formerly the Luv Shack), the monthly sex-focused party I had put together four years earlier. I handed the keys over to my successor, and they made some changes and ran the party until the CSPC shut down in September of 2016.

On February 14th, Fifty Shades of Grey was released as a movie. And then suddenly, everyone in America wanted a good old-fashioned, over-the-knee, open-handed spanking! The kink-curious quotient shot skywards. This unprecedented growth in our community was exciting, but it also required a lot of tender loving care and gentle reminders to new members about etiquette and how to play within our community.

From spring into summer, there were some arguments between staff members over cell phone use and what constituted proper enforcement of the rules which required an extended period of negotiation to settle the disputes. I did my best to not let the conflicts sap my strength and instead focused my energy on running the Hump.

In July there was more discussion about the CSPC’s policy on suspensions. The Hump was always a suspension-friendly event, usually having 1-2 suspensions each night. The catalyst for reviving this ongoing debate was an incident involving a member who misrepresented themselves and attempted to do a suspension with unapproved gear. The scene was stopped and the member protested this, but we held firm. We have rules about suspensions and they need to be followed. So, from summer into fall clarifications were made, rules updated, and changes duly noted.

Our volunteers are always working to make our parties sexy, fun, and as safe as possible. Another staff duty from back in the day: Checking the parking lot and offering to escort attendees to their vehicles when leaving. Usually at 25-30 minute intervals, I would grab a flashlight and check the parking lot for weirdness. Only on rare occasions would something be weird. Escorting attendees to their vehicles (and sometimes to the nearby bus stop) helped add a layer of safety that attendees greatly appreciated. Did I mention that the “Buddy System” works? When you come to the Center, bring a buddy!

The year ended with a well deserved “Whew!” as the Hump watched the holiday season pass by without having to worry about the upcoming NYE party. I even managed to have that night off!

Until next time... :^)

Want to be part of making sexy dreams a reality in our community? Become a volunteer, either party-facing or behind the scenes! Complete the online orientation and volunteer application today!

A Good Smack on the Back

by Emma Atkinson 

“I came to the CSPC for the flogging, but I stayed for the people” - A

Fifty or so lovely folks found their way to Kinky Acres on Saturday, October 1, for the CSPC volunteer appreciation party “A Smack on the Back.” The quotes are from actual participants who were there. The weather was beautiful, the location was idyllic, and the clothing was minimal. The stage was set for a super party! 

“I started the summer searching for myself and a community.  Thanks to the CSPC, at the end of the summer I ended up with a family, transformed.” - T

Play spaces were created on the spacious lawn. We were treated to the culinary creations of Cass and Dan, who also cooked for us at both Frolic events. There was a lot of spirited conversation going on around the tables as we savored the yummy dinner they provided.  

“The CSPC is one of the pivotal organizations that creates the Seattle culture” - E

After dinner, raffle winners took possession of great swag including floggers, CSPC bags and tee shirts, and sensation toys. The official CSPC treasure chest was there, too, and volunteers chose the treasure (scented and handmade soaps, hair accessories, and various lotions and potions) that they wanted to take home and enjoy.  

“I’m continually surprised by the depth of healing and inner growth that people are experiencing at CSPC events.” - B

As the sun began to set, more clothing was put on. These fall evenings can get a bit nippy in the Pacific Northwest!  We were treated to some fire play - it’s quite beautiful, especially in the dark.   It’s probably not an exaggeration to say that a good time was had by all.

“We all volunteer for different reasons.  But to come together, all at the same time, none of us working, to socialize and play - what a day!” -T

Thanks to everyone who made the volunteer appreciation event happen. And thanks to the dedicated volunteers who make everything happen at the CSPC!

It takes all of us contributing to build and sustain the thriving sex positive community we want to be a part of. Not yet a volunteer? Join us here! Whether at parties or behind the scenes, there’s a volunteer role just right for everyone. Email us at HR@thecspc.org to find the spot that’s right for you. Limited time and energy? Donate here! 

It's Time for Femme Dominion!

Join us at Gallery Erato on Saturday, September 24 (7pm-midnight) for Femme Dominion, a BDSM play party for Femme identified Tops and all the people who adore them. Get your kink on and get in some socializing with like-minded pervs in a Queer centered space. Bask in the many glorious forms that Femme can take, especially when it takes charge.

Play equipment and places to get intimate abound with seating scattered throughout the space to optimize the sweet voyeur/exhibitionist dynamic of public play. Last month the event was awash in sexy scenes all night long.

In response to the marked eagerness of our attendees we’ve decided to abbreviate our social hour to just 30 minutes followed by a sensual transitional performance, and then it's absolutely game on until we shut down at midnight. We’ll once again have name tags and red wrist bands for flagging, signaling to others at the event that you’re open to be approached for something more than just social interaction. We’re consistently impressed with the success rates of these simple tools.

This is a Queer-centered, but not exclusionary, party focused on Femme Dommes and all the lovely people who appreciate our particular attentions as well as those who simply prefer Femme led spaces. We embrace Femme in its many varied manifestations inclusive of, but not exclusive to, gender identity.

Come explore ours or your own.

Buy your tickets here! Not yet a member? Purchase a New Member Ticket here, which includes new member orientation, your first month’s membership fee, and party entry. 

There will be no tickets available at the door for this event, tickets are only available through pre purchase online. Registration for this party is limited to a maximum of 120 tickets and we have sold out in advance of every one of our events so far so please plan accordingly. 

We are always looking for more people committed to this type of programming to fill volunteer positions. Help with setting/cleaning up as well as registration and monitoring is always welcome. If you are interest in helping in these capacities, please complete the online volunteer orientation and volunteer application form and then reach out to us at FemmeDominion@thecspc.org so we can help you get signed up for the right shift for you.

Hump History Year Seven: Before the Eighth

by Teeebone

As the Hump began its 7th year in 2014, the ongoing challenge of staff maintenance continued to slowly escalate, particularly in the EC (Event Coordinator) department. The EC position is basically a manager type of position, and typically was combined with being a Champion or Host of any given party or event. By this time, a significant number of older ECs had left for one reason or another, and finding replacements for them was proving difficult.

Event Coordinators run the party, delegate responsibilities among the crew, arrange the volunteer schedule with the volunteer coordinator, handle publicity, and help come up with new ideas and themes if they are also Champions and/or Hosts. It’s a lot to take on, and by 2014 I found myself both opening and closing the Hump at least once and sometimes twice a month.

While we’re on the topic of volunteers, I’d like to give a shout-out to all of those who worked as cashiers during the Interbay days of the CSPC. It was a difficult job involving not just the typical cash handling and credit card transactions of a retail cashier, but also potential drama at the doorstep issues when it came to resolving conflicts over membership and/or admission to the party. When this happened, the EC had to get involved and make a decision on how to resolve the conflict. Typically, an EC could expect to be hanging around the cashier’s desk for at least a quarter of their shift.

As for the Hump itself, the party had become quite rope bondage-friendly over the years and usually had two suspensions a night. The back sex room filled up by 9pm, and the cuddle/romp pile was a center of activity while the solo space was occupied with an exhibitionist scene of some sort. In the previous summer, we began using a video projector to show porn on a big screen that divided the cuddle/romp pile from the solo space. The placement of said screen was optimal and allowed folx to watch porn from almost anywhere in the Main Space. It was literally the best backdrop ever!

Another thing of note was the wave of “kink-curious” members entering the community in the wake of the Fifty Shades of Grey phenomenon, and I found myself having to remind new members about the rules and etiquette that our membership follows, especially in relation to cellphones. Cellphones had been in use for years at this point, and the habit of checking the phone was a common activity. Handling this problem required some gentle reminders of the rules and making sure that they were followed.

The Hump rolled on with a birthday sundae scene in the Messy Room in mid-June. This involved laying down tarps to cover a massage table and the floor, with the subject lying on the table while ice cream, toppings, and pressurized whipped cream in a can were placed on them and then licked and/or eaten off the subject. VERY MESSY! Who knew that cold could be so hot?

While the Hump Crew took Xmas Eve off, New Year’s Eve came on a Wednesday the following week that year so we had a NYE Edition Hump and Whump! The event included a fancy dinner for 30 premium attendees and all of the spaces (the Main Space, Annex, and RAW Dungeon) open for play! 2015 was just around the corner!

Until next time... :^)


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